Researching Your Ancestors’ Old Divorce Records

Researching Your Ancestors’ Old Divorce Records

Our married forebears called it quits more often than you might think. Finding their divorce records can be tricky, but this guide will show you the right road to ancestral Splitsville.

In December 1825, Amelia Alexander petitioned the Virginia state legislature for divorce. In flowery prose, she unfolded a sordid tale of her husband’s adultery, abuse and even transmission of venereal disease: “She too late discovered that the man to whom she confided her person, her happiness and her life, was unworthy. He has abused the one, destroyed the second, and more than threatened the last.”
 
Benjamin Sewell of Russell County, Va., had a sad story, too. His wife Mary allegedly left him for another man after 18 years of marriage and eight children: “She bartered away any affection she had for her husband; for her children; the respect she had for her Sex and for herself, for the foul embraces of a vile Seducer.”
 
 
 
Although these accounts may read like Victorian soap operas, the drama behind them was painful and real. Unfortunately for them, neither Amelia nor Benjamin won their divorce petitions. Both were denied in January 1827 by the Virginia Senate.
 

Today the drama and details of petitions like these (even the unsuccessful ones) can enrich your family history search. In the past, a disenchanted spouse had to convince a judge or an entire state legislature—or both—to undo the marriage. What went awry in the relationship may be documented in almost uncomfortable detail. The couple’s entire backstory may be there, too: when and where they married, the names and ages of their kids, their financial assets, and where they lived.

Of course, when researching a family tree, you don’t always know when you should look for divorce records. The further you go back in time, the lower the odds that even the unhappiest couples filed. And divorce records aren’t generally as easy to find as marriage records. So use this guide to help you recognize when you should be looking for divorce records and how to find them.
 

Clues to unhappy endings
Before looking for an ancestor’s divorce record, you’ll likely have learned of the marriage. Marriages are documented in civil marriage returns, church registers, newspaper announcements, family Bibles, pension records and more. Records that may pair couples’ names (sometimes with specific mention that they were married) include property records, census entries, obituaries, tombstone inscriptions, their children’s birth records, draft registrations, estate documents and more.
A hint of a divorce may appear in the same record sets:
• A marriage record may indicate one spouse was previously divorced.
• Children named in census records (beginning in 1850) may have a different last name from the head-of-household, or (beginning in 1880) may be described as stepchildren to that person. (Remember, censuses provide only the
relationship to the head-of-household, so you can’t tell if household members are stepchildren of a mother who isn’t the head-of-household.)
• Beginning in 1880, look for the letter D in the marital status column of the census.
• A deed may be executed by a married woman acting alone or identify her as a feme sole (legally a single woman).   

• Newspapers published notices that one spouse would no longer take responsibility for the debts of the other, and sometimes published news of the divorce proceeding.
 
 
 

• Obituaries might name a different spouse or children by a former spouse.    
• Ancestors may be buried alongside a subsequent spouse or near children from that spouse.
• Probate papers may mention children by a different spouse or financial obligations to a former spouse.
These records, however, may not reveal the whole story. Early marriage records don’t necessarily ask about prior marital history. A remarrying bride would usually use her most recent surname, not her maiden surname. In the census and other records, a divorcee making a fresh start may have identified herself as widowed or single. Children of an earlier marriage may have taken on the name of their stepfather.
Divorce didn’t always immediately follow a separation—or even precede the next wedding. Divorce was socially undesirable, expensive and (especially in the distant past) not a sure thing. Legal grounds for granting divorce were often strict and difficult or humiliating to prove. An unhappy husband might instead go to sea or disappear onto the frontier. A miserable wife might run away with someone else: She had few legal rights over her own children and property anyway, but would have difficulty surviving on her own.
Practical consideration usually prompted an unhappy couple to finally divorce. One party may have wanted to remarry legally or at least be free of a spouse’s debts. Often one or both parties had property or children’s inheritances to protect: lawful spouses and legitimate children took precedence, even after years of separation. It may have taken time for a potential divorcee to build up the social and financial security to withstand the scandal. Finally, there’s always the possibility that an unwitting second spouse discovered the truth and demanded things be set right.

Even when records don’t directly mention a divorce or separation, you might simply guess that one happened, such as when the bigger picture you see doesn’t make sense, when names of other children or spouses pop up in records, or when women show up unexpectedly alone in records.
 

Rules for getting unhitched
Before retracing your ancestors’ steps to divorce court, you need to know what route they took. The path may not have led through court at all. It depends on where and when a person lived and who was in charge there.

The English, Spanish, French and Dutch, primarily, colonized the United States. Each colony had its own rules about divorce. Laws varied within differently minded English colonies. There even were different levels of divorce, comparable to modern divorce versus legal separation (they called the latter “divorce from bed and board” or divorce a mensa et thoro). See our list of legal terms you may come across in your ancestors’ old divorce records.
Here’s a quick summary of divorce laws by region:

• Colonial New England: Divorce here was a civil matter that was settled in court. Grounds for granting a full-fledged divorce were relatively liberal: adultery, abuse, neglect and desertion.
• Middle colonies and Virginia: Colonial governors or legislatures granted divorces, and just for adultery, bigamy or longtime desertion. You sometimes see divorces from bed and board, but even that was relatively uncommon.
• Southern colonies: There was little tolerance for divorce of any kind. You’re more apt to find a court order for the payment of alimony so spouses could live separately.
• New Netherland: In what’s now much of New York, the colonial Dutch government pushed reconciliation by arbitration but allowed both absolute divorce and the bed-and-board kind.
• French colonial Louisiana: Divorces from bed and board due to spousal cruelty show up fairly regularly in Superior Council records. But even though laws allowed it, absolute divorce was generally a no-no because marriage was a Catholic sacrament.
• Florida, Texas and the Southwest: In the Spanish colonies, where Catholic thinking also prevailed, couples could receive a dissolution of the marriage. They went their separate ways, wives got their dowries back and could keep their children. But they couldn’t remarry without an annulment.
There were exceptions to these generalizations. Marriages could be dissolved because of an underage bride or groom or because they were too closely related. In cases of adultery, sometimes divorces were granted only if the woman cheated. Ex-spouses guilty of adultery might not be allowed to remarry. In some Southern states, divorcing spouses had to get both court and legislative approval. South Carolina didn’t grant any divorces until after a constitutional change in 1949.
As the population grew, divorce gradually became the sole domain of the courtroom. Most states did away with legislative divorce by 1867. New US territories and states formed with more liberal divorce laws. These places became meccas for those looking for quick divorces. In 1852, Indiana allowed divorce for any “proper” reason; it had liberal residency requirements and didn’t require serving papers personally to the spouse. Utah, the Dakotas, Oklahoma and later, Alabama and Nevada, became go-to states for fast divorces.

These changes, along with decreasing social stigma, boosted divorce rates. When first measured in 1867, the rate was about 3 percent. It began climbing slowly in the late 1800s, then more quickly in the 1900s. It hit 15 percent by the Roaring Twenties and jumped to a record 43 percent in 1946, in the wake of World War II. That rate dropped back to around 25 percent until the 1970s. Between 1867 and 1967, the number of marriages in this country multiplied by five—and the number of divorces by about 50.
 

Seeking divorce records
Remember, there were initially two avenues for divorce: the legislature and the courtroom. The paper trail—and how you find it—is a little different for each.
• Legislative divorces: Unhappy spouses petitioned legislatures to get divorced in some colonies, early territories and states (think Pennsylvania, New York and Virginia). In new territories, the fledgling legislatures often initially handled divorces, as in Ohio.
The process started with an original petition, usually handwritten, from the person or an attorney. It explained, often in great detail, why the petitioner was seeking a divorce. Affidavits or other supporting documentation may have accompanied the petition. The petition was referred to the appropriate committee, which considered it and proposed a bill that then had to pass through the approval process.
If original documents still exist, they may be with the state archives or library, or in a special archive of the legislature itself. They generally weren’t published. The Library of Virginia has a searchable index for legislative petitions from 1776 to 1865, which includes divorces, at <www.lva.virginia.gov/public/guides/petitions>. The library is gradually digitizing and posting the records online. If a family member or attorney kept a copy of the petition, it may be in a manuscript collection of the family’s or attorney’s private papers. Look for these in manuscript catalogs at regional archives.
Any follow-up action by the state legislatures (either the upper or lower house) should appear in their legislative journals and/or statute books. Debates and amendments during the bill approval process may be recorded in legislative minutes. In Amelia Alexander’s case, for example, the Journal of the Virginia House of Delegates for the 1826 to 1827 session reported action on her case many times. She was given what amounted to a legal separation in February 1826. The legislature debated her request for an absolute divorce that would allow her to remarry, but eventually turned her down.
If a divorce was granted, legislators drew up a private law, which should appear among other statutes passed during the time period. Look for these first in listings of private acts (sometimes called local laws), often separate from the more general laws the legislature passed. Journals and statute books generally were published annually.
Most early journals and statutes books have been digitized. Look for these online in three places: Google Books <books.google.com>, Internet Archive <www.archive.org> and HathiTrust <www.hathitrust.org> (a digital archive available through major university and research libraries).
For journal books, search with the name of the state or colony and keywords such as legislative, house or senate and journal. Adding a person’s name and the word divorce can quickly narrow results. If you have trouble finding a specific year, repeat the search with the full title and the year you want to search. The copyright year of the journal may not be the year it covers; the book may have been reprinted or the year left off. If you don’t find the journal you need, you may have to first research the name of a territorial or state governing body to use as a keyword (for example, Wikipedia <www.wikipedia.org> says that Alabama’s territorial government was a general assembly).
For statute books, search these sites with the name of the state or colony, but use keywords such as private laws or private acts and divorce. Searching for the name of an ancestor and adding divorce as a keyword also can produce results. Here’s a tip: Book content on Internet Archive isn’t easily searched from the main screen. Find the book first, then keyword search within it for your ancestor’s name.
Genealogical societies have published abstracts of or indexes to some legislative divorces in their periodicals. Start your search for these articles in the Periodical Source Index (PERSI), a database at findmypast <www.findmypast.com>, Ancestry.com <ancestry.com> and HeritageQuest Online <www.heritagequestonline.com> (available via subscribing libraries). A search of PERSI with the term legislative divorce brings up articles on Colonial Pennsylvania, Minnesota, Virginia, Georgia, Alabama, Arkansas and more. Most of the dates referenced in these articles range from the late 1700s to the mid-1800s.
• Courtroom divorces: Almost all US divorces after 1900, and many before then (including all divorces in New England), were courtroom divorces. Whatever court had jurisdiction over equity matters handled divorces, usually the county’s circuit, superior or district court. You can find a list of courts by state in Val D. Greenwood’s book Researcher’s Guide to American Genealogy (Genealogical Publishing Co.).
In a judicial divorce (so called because a judge presided), the person seeking a divorce filed a complaint. These are often rich with marital details and discord, because their purpose was to show grounds for divorce. They often include genealogical details: the date and place of marriage and the names and ages of their children.
The original complaint, along with any response, should be in the case files or loose papers for the divorce. Similar to an estate or probate packet, this is where you’ll find the original documents related to the case. You also may discover juicy input from witnesses: transcripts of oral depositions or written answers to questions, both made under oath. You might find court orders for interim spousal or child support, or for temporary custody of the children.
A list of actions or filings in each divorce case also appears in court docket books, organized by case. Court minute books, organized by date, summarize day-to-day actions of the court—basically the same information, but organized differently and sometimes with important variations.
Ultimately, you’ll find the judgment resolving the case. Divorces could be granted, denied or even dismissed. For the oldest cases, the judgment may be all that still exists, but it may have great information in it. Look for the judgments either in a separate book of judgments or judgment orders, or in the minutes of the court itself.
Case files, loose papers, court docket case lists, court minute books and final judgments are kept with other court records. Before heading to the courthouse or sending a records request, check the court’s website or call and ask where case files for that court and year are archived. You may learn that older records are sent to the state archives. You might even be able to access the court’s records on microfilm: Go to <www.familysearch.org/catalog-search> and run a place search for the county with the keyword divorce.  You can rent FamilySearch microfilm through a local FamilySearch Center (see <www.familysearch.org/locations>). Also try searching the state archives’ online card catalog (if available). State archives microfilm might be available through interlibrary loan, or check the archives’ website for instructions on requesting records.
If you’re really lucky, your ancestors’ county court records will be digitized at FamilySearch.org. Go to <www.family

search.org/search/collection/list> and filter by United States, then the state. Study the database list in the center of the screen for court records from your ancestors’ county. Chances are the records aren’t yet indexed and searchable, in which case you’ll need to browse for the records you need.
 

Telltale online indexes
If you’re not sure whether a divorce occurred, or you need direction for where to search, an online index may provide key information. Statewide divorce indexes are a relatively recent phenomenon, and in many states, divorces within the past 50 years are sealed for privacy reasons. So most statewide divorce indexes on websites such as Archives.com <www.archives.com> provide sparse information. Take comfort that you can get at least that, and make a note to look for originals when they become available.
Still, some divorce indexes do stretch back well before the 50-year mark. Archives.com has divorce indexes for about two dozen states. Most of these cover records from the mid-1900s and forward, but records for Colorado go back to 1851, Maine to 1800, Utah to 1852 and Missouri to approximately 1750.
Ancestry.com has 30 million indexed divorce records representing 18 US states and a few individual counties. Here, Washington’s index dates back to 1852, Michigan’s to 1897, Tennessee’s to 1800 and Maine’s to 1798 (when it was still part of Massachusetts). FamilySearch.org hosts some of the same indexes for free. To find them, go to <www.familysearch.org/search/collection/list> and type divorce or court into the Filter by Collection Name box.
If you’re pretty sure a divorce took place but can’t find it in the court of your ancestor’s jurisdiction, he or she may have gone to a “divorce mecca” for a faster, easier uncoupling. Search still coming up dry? It’s possible the unhappy pair never bothered with the formality of a divorce. But keep checking back online. Just as it may have taken your ancestors years to file for a divorce, it may take a while for the right indexes or images to appear online to help you find their paperwork and learn their sad story.

Practice Makes Perfect
Intimidated by the idea of searching old law books? Try these exercises on Google Books <books.google.com>:
1. Run a Keyword Search. From the main search box on the home page, search for journal house Virginia divorce Amelia Alexander. You’ll see the 1826 Journal of the House of Delegates of the Commonwealth of Virginia referencing her divorce as a top search result.

2. Find A statute book for early Ohio. (Hint: Ohio was part of the Northwest Territory). Got it? The book is The Statutes of Ohio and of the Northwestern Territory, Adopted or Enacted From 1788 to 1833 Inclusive …, edited by Salmon P. Chase. A search on the term divorce in Volume I brings up only the legislative history (not individual divorces), so look for additional volumes. You’ll hit the jackpot in Volume III, for statutes pertaining to individual divorces.
 
Tip: Search for legislative and court records of divorces at a state archives or library, at a county courthouse, or on microfilm from the Family History Library.
 
Tip: You may find clues that a divorce occurred in marriage records, censuses, deeds, obituaries, newspaper articles, burial records and probate records.
 
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